Ilse Gevaert

Ilse Gevaert is a highly skilled psychologist and coach with expertise in trauma, narcissistic abuse, resilience, giftedness, and neurodiversity (Autism and ADHD). Originally from Belgium, Ilse continued her education at prestigious institutions such as Harvard and Cornell, where she obtained leadership certificates that have informed her practice. Growing up without a left arm, has taught her resilience and self-acceptance. She refused to be a victim of her circumstances and chose instead to see her prosthetic arm as a symbol of strength and resilience, a reminder that she is capable of overcoming any obstacle that comes her way. She learned to adapt and thrive, finding creative solutions to everyday challenges and never allowing anyone to discourage her from pursuing her dreams.

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Rewire Your Brain: Transforming Your Life Through Neuroplasticity

The human brain is a marvel of nature, constantly evolving and adapting throughout our lives. In this exploration of neuroplasticity, we’ll discover how our brains can be reshaped and how we can harness this incredible power to transform our lives. From understanding the basics of neural networks to practical tips for rewiring our minds, this […]

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Stimming: Understanding and Embracing Self-Regulatory Behaviors

Stimming, short for self-stimulatory behavior, refers to repetitive movements or sounds that individuals engage in to regulate their sensory experiences and emotions. While often associated with autism and ADHD, stimming is a natural human behavior that many people use to some degree. The Importance of Stimming Sensory Regulation Stimming helps individuals manage overwhelming sensory input.

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The Rise of Incivility: A Rude Awakening

In recent decades, American society has witnessed a alarming rise in incivility and derogatory discourse across various platforms. This trend, evident in both public and private spheres, has sparked serious concerns about the deterioration of civil dialogue and its far-reaching impact on social cohesion. This exploration traces the evolution of incivility in American popular culture,

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Unveiling the Hidden Gifted: Overcoming Stereotypes and Biases

In the realm of giftedness, a significant group of individuals often goes unnoticed, their exceptional talents hidden beneath societal stereotypes and educational biases. These “hidden gifted” challenge our traditional notions of high achievement and frequently remain invisible within mainstream educational systems. This article explores the diverse faces of giftedness, shedding light on those who are

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10 Warning Signs of Manipulative and Cult-Like Leadership

Leadership, whether in business, politics, or community organizations, can sometimes cross the line into manipulative, coercive or cult-like behavior. Recognizing these signs early is crucial for maintaining a healthy environment. Here are 10 red flags to watch out for, with examples from various contexts. 1. Infallible Leader The leader is perceived as incapable of making

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The Power of a Growth Mindset: Achieving Success and Fulfillment

A growth mindset is the belief that your abilities and intelligence can be developed through effort, learning, and persistence. This perspective contrasts with a fixed mindset, which assumes that our qualities are static and unchangeable. Why a Growth Mindset Matters People with a growth mindset often accomplish more than those who believe their abilities are

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The Volatility of Narcissism: Surviving a Narcissist’s Emotional Minefield

In the complex landscape of personality disorders, narcissistic emotional dysregulation stands out as a particularly volatile and destructive force. This phenomenon, characterized by extreme and unpredictable emotional responses, creates a tumultuous environment that leaves those in its wake struggling to find solid ground. Individuals with narcissistic personality disorder (NPD) often present a façade of confidence

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Understanding Emotional Regulation for Neurodivergent Individuals

Emotional regulation can be particularly challenging for neurodivergent individuals, such as those with autism and ADHD. Unique minds possess distinct strengths, such as creativity and hyper-focus, yet also face specific vulnerabilities, including heightened sensitivity and difficulty managing emotions. In this article, we will delve into the unique strengths and challenges faced by neurodivergent individuals. We

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Emotional Regulation: Understanding and Managing Our Emotions

What is Emotional Regulation? Emotional regulation is a critical skill within the broader framework of emotional intelligence. Emotional regulation is the ability to effectively manage and respond to an emotional experience. It involves recognizing, understanding, and controlling our emotional reactions in various situations. This skill is crucial for maintaining mental health, fostering healthy relationships, and

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