Ilse Gevaert

Ilse Gevaert is a highly skilled psychologist and coach with expertise in trauma, narcissistic abuse, resilience, giftedness, and neurodiversity (Autism and ADHD). Originally from Belgium, Ilse continued her education at prestigious institutions such as Harvard and Cornell, where she obtained leadership certificates that have informed her practice. Growing up without a left arm, has taught her resilience and self-acceptance. She refused to be a victim of her circumstances and chose instead to see her prosthetic arm as a symbol of strength and resilience, a reminder that she is capable of overcoming any obstacle that comes her way. She learned to adapt and thrive, finding creative solutions to everyday challenges and never allowing anyone to discourage her from pursuing her dreams.

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Emotional Intelligence: The Key to Performance and Leadership

Emotional intelligence plays a vital role in both performance and leadership. [1] Ninety percent of the top leaders excel in emotional intelligence. This underscores that emotional intelligence is the top predictor of performance and the strongest driver of leadership and personal excellence. [2] Emotional intelligence is the ability to understand and manage your own emotions […]

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From Charm to Harm: Narcissists and Psychopaths in Organizations

In today’s fast-paced and fast-changing world, the allure of charismatic and confident individuals can often mask darker personality traits that spell disaster for organizations. Narcissists and psychopaths, with their charm and apparent fearlessness, frequently find themselves in positions of power, leaving a trail of chaos and destruction in their wake. But how do these individuals

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Breaking the Cycle: How Scapegoating Affects ADHD Kids

In many families, children with Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD) often find themselves unfairly labeled as the scapegoat. Their neurological condition can be labeled as a character flaw. This scapegoating can have profound and lasting impacts on their emotional and psychological well-being. What is Scapegoating? Scapegoating is the practice of unfairly blaming one person or

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Glamorizing Narcissists and Psychopaths: The Media’s Role

In the enchanting world of movies and TV shows, we often encounter narratives that humanize narcissists undergoing transformative journeys and mafia bosses who reveal tender sides through their love for family. But behind the glitz and glamour lies a dangerous game of rewriting reality, where the darkest hearts are painted with strokes of redemption, blurring

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DARVO: The Abuser’s Defense

DARVO is an acronym that stands for “Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender”. It describes a common manipulation strategy used by perpetrators of wrongdoing, particularly those who are narcissists or psychopaths, to deflect blame and maintain control over a situation. Here’s a breakdown of the technique: Deny The perpetrator denies the wrongdoing or abuse,

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Combating Cyber Bullying: Addressing the Growing Problem

Cyberbullying has become a significant concern with the widespread use of the internet and social media. Unlike traditional bullying, cyberbullying happens online, making it easier for bullies to target their victims anytime and anywhere. Understanding who these cyberbullies are, what motivates them, and the causes behind their behavior is crucial in addressing this growing problem.

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Understanding Brain Differences in Narcissism and Psychopathy

The development of narcissistic and psychopathic traits is often attributed to environmental factors like traumatic childhood experiences or adverse circumstances, implying that with proper therapeutic intervention, these traits could potentially be overcome. However, recent research indicates that the roots of narcissism and psychopathy may lie deeper within the structure and function of the brain itself.

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Maximizing Potential: The Power of Neurodiversity Self-Advocacy

Importance of Mapping Strengths and Weaknesses For neurodivergent individuals, mapping out their strengths and weaknesses is vital for several reasons, particularly in a work setting. This process not only helps them understand themselves better but also allows them to strategically navigate their professional environment. Self-Awareness By identifying your strengths and weaknesses, you gain a clearer

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Understanding the Difference Between Tantrums and Meltdowns

Tantrum or Meltdown? The terms “tantrum” and “meltdown” are often used interchangeably, but they describe different behaviors. Each has its distinct causes and characteristics. Understanding the difference between the two can help in responding appropriately, especially when dealing with children or individuals with special needs. Tantrum Definition A tantrum is a behavior that typically arises

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